Saturday, November 27, 2010

Thanksgiving at the beach

Ade has her last day at Kiddie Academy, which she celebrated by asking me to bring in some snowman cookies we baked together the night before. Then after sharing them with her friends, she asked me to sing Rudolph with her for her class. So, Ade and I serenaded her class. Yea. Then we went to visit Goddard again for their little Thanksgiving party, and Ade sat right down and talked to her new friends. It was a great visit, and we were excited for her to start there full-time after the break!

We then had a lovely, simple family Thanksgiving at home! Knowing we were leaving for Myrtle Beach the next day, we did some portion control, and limited the menu (hard to do when we all wanted to cook!). Check out Ade the Olive Thief, the two old ladies working over the hot stove, and the two snickerdoodles:




Then we had a fabulous car ride to Myrtle Beach, with Ade being an angel and watching Christmas DVDs the whole way there. We went straight to Bass Pro Shop to visit Santa's Wonderland while we waited for our hotel to be ready at Breakers. There we acquired a stuffed Rudolph whose nose lights up, which Ade carried with her everywhere the whole trip, showing essentially everyone - every stranger in the elevator, in line at breakfast, while shopping, you get the idea. Ade ran right up to Santa and let him know she wants a stuffed Ponyo for Christmas. Check out this perfect picture!


After we settled into our room, we had a yummy dinner at Margaritaville - Havanas and Bananas! - and Ade got a cool balloon flower from a guy on stilts. Then we headed over to MagicQuest where Adelaide selected a pink wand, and when asked her preferred Magi name, she answered without hesitation, "Master Toptops" and chose to join the Shadow clan. Once inside she had an insatiable curiosity for investigating the dungeon and the dragon therein. In the gift shop, we met a giant Baby Lemur! On our way back to the car, she got some hugs from a dino and a polar bear. It was a perfect first day!




The fun didn't end there, but got even better the next day. Daddy got us some Starbucks, and then we ate breakfast in the hotel. We went down to the beach for a quick walk, and some people were luckily feeding the birds bread. We went to go watch, and they gave Ade some to throw. She had an absolute blast!


We went out to do a little shopping at Broadway at the Beach, lunch at Landry's and then over to what Ade was waiting for - the rides!!! RIDES!!! First we went on the little ferris wheel, and she got her first taste of the fun. This part of the trip, I think, we will be a memory I treasure forever. She had so much fun, and it was clear to me that she really is growing up so fast. There was an airplane ride that she was tall enough to go on by herself, and after repeatedly telling her that no mommy and daddies are allowed on, and her repeatedly telling me she wanted to go anyhow, we let her walk onto a ride without us! As Ryan said, it was an odd parenting moment. We were nervous to let out tiny baby be buckled into a ride without us, and we were proud to watch her happily fly her plane following the instructions perfectly. In fact, on her second ride, while the other kids were staying the course up high or down low, Ade was flying high, low, bumps, dips, serious mad skillz! Then she went on the cars with daddy that whip around the corner, and she laughed like it was the best moment of her life. Joy, joy, joy.




While finishing our shopping, we encountered some ducks in a fountain. Again thanks to the kindness of strangers, they gave Ade some goldfish crackers to feed the ducks who ate them out of her hand, to her delight.

We took a break back at the hotel, and headed the big highlight - Dixie Stampede! Ade enjoyed the preshow juggler immensely with his dangerous stunts of balancing a ladder on his chin and juggling fire. The horse show with the Christmas theme was a hit, as far as Adelaide was concerned.

On our last morning, we took one last quick walk at the beach where it was considerably colder than the day before, and fed the birds again. After another great drive home, I was just so thrilled with how the weekend turned out.




Since then, Ade has flourished at Goddard. The first day she came home exploding with things to tell us. In fact, I had to use Google Translator on my phone to interpret the new Spanish words she had learned that day! She insisted we make ice cubes at home, since they learned about water, snow, and ice that day.

We are so happy with our decision. Peace of mind. Phew!

Tuesday, November 23, 2010

Time for a change, and welcome to Jack!

This month has been something. After some serious discussions, Ryan and I did a gut check and realized we felt it was time to find a new school for Adelaide. After several accidents we weren't thrilled about, the thing that really made our decision was Adelaide's request to go to a new school. She had a lot of change in her room recently - new teacher, kids she has known for years leaving - and she was ready.

So, the day we decided, I made an appointment at Goddard School, and we visited. Now, I am NOT a fan of public crying, ever, no matter the circumstance. Well, the previous Friday Adelaide had told me rather matter of factly that she had played alone all day. When I asked her why, she said, "I don't like the other kids." This silently broke my heart. When we visited Goddard, Ade walked in and immediately started playing with the other kids. And yes, I started crying like a moron.

We visited once already again, and will go back tomorrow, then she starts there officially next Monday after Thanksgiving. This has been a very difficult decision. I had no idea that daycare/preschool issues would be so amazingly hard. Parenting is absolutely the hardest job ever. Sorry, IBM, but no matter what you throw at me, you are still no match.

Other things - Ade likely has allergies, she grew 2 inches and gained 2 lbs since July, we did our poinsettia photo shoot this weekend with Grandma, Jenna and Vivian AND THE BIG NEWS - Ade has another cousin!

Congratulations to Lindsay and Luke, and welcome to the family, Jackson Luke Nolte!


I will leave you with some Adelaide conversations and Adelaide pictures...
- Mommy: "Ade, it says on your paper you were naughty at naptime today." Ade [dead serious]: "Well.. I am not proud of myself."
- [Voice clogged and raspy] "My voice sounds interesting. When I talk, weird noises come out."
- Ade: "Wishes don't come true, right, Mommy?" Mommy: "Sure they do, baby, sometimes." Ade: "My wishes never come true." Mommy: "Mine do - I wished for a wonderful baby, and I got you! I am sure your wishes will come true too!" Ade: "Well, I wish for you to grow another baby in your belly." [Sigh.]


Saturday, November 06, 2010

How can October be gone already?







And where did it go???

So, with the arrival of my baby Vivian - ahem, I mean my niece, a trip to Sweden, and Halloween, the month has just disappeared!

A week after Vivian made her entrance, I took a few days off and hung out with them at Jenna's house, which was awesome. Since then V has decided she wants to be just like her cousin, and has developed reflux. Ug for them all.

The Guhs came down to visit their new grand-daughter, and of course we all got to hang out and have tons of fun as well.




Then, I headed to Stockholm for work, and Ade and daddy had more time to bond. Before I left, though, we had a sleepover on the third floor, and also I chaperoned a daycare trip to the pumpkin patch.


Luckily, this trip was only 4 nights, and I had a great time. Ade requested a troll, so I brought back 2! :-)

Sadly, I returned home to find out my Star had passed away as I mentioned in a previous post. However, that wasn't the only trauma I returned home to. This year for Halloween, Ade was Minnie Mouse. Unfortunately, she was a Minnie Mouse with stitches in her forehead. Yes, you read that right - stitches AGAIN!!! Friday, the day of Ade's party at school, I got a call that we needed to take her to the ER, and off we went after she took a dive on the playground. We had to have a long talk with the daycare after the second incident of this level in only a few months. After reviewing the video tape though, there was obvious supervision. Ade is a bit careless with her body...

So, Ade was again the best kind of trooper she could be. The event was very similar to the last time I wrote it up, including the itchy nose, and covered eyes. Even in the middle of her heaving sobs, she assured me, "It doesn't hurt anymore; I just can't calm down." Immediately after I got to hold her, she said "I love you, mama." She was so relieved to be in my arms, and I thought I would just melt I was so happy for her to be there in my arms.

All of that trauma aside, though, we had a wonderful Halloween. We did some craft projects, made rice krispie spooky ghost, carved a jack-o-lantern, and of course went trick-or-treating. Ade had a glow wand, which she would wave at people and say "Bibbidy -boppity - DO!" (We tried to tell her it was boo, but no.) Then she would inform people that she had put a GOOD spell on them. One of the ladies who she cast her magic on said, "Oh I LOVE you!!!" to her, because she is amazingly adorable. Her Minnie shoes lit up as she walked, which was so fun. On the way home, she said "Look a wishing star! I wish I was a real Minnie! Now you make a wish mama!" She is the most clever little precious yummy sweet girl ever.




Oh, and the best news - when we got the stitches out, it was trauma-free this time! Finally, a break ;-)

Oh, and, we also got our landscaping all redone! Woohoo!!!

October 2010 tweets


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Some hooligan snatched almost our whole basket of candy while I was putting Ade to sleep. Trick-or-treat is about honor, kids!!!
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While trick-or-treating, Ade: "There is a wishing star! I wish I was a real Minnie! Now you make a wish, mama!" Don't think I need one. :-)
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Husband and I share Amazon account & I fake browse after gift shopping to throw off algorithms for next login to disguise. Need profiles.
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Foldable, disposable flat shoes for when your heels hurt. Sorry, but I only pay $13 for my "real" shoes...
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Starting Halloween by watching Hocus Pocus. Later is pumpkin carving, rice krispie food project, and of course TRICK OR TREATING!
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Missing Star at the foot of the bed, and flashes of Ade getting stitches on my mind. Hoping for a tomorrow with no fresh traumas please.
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Stitches in Ade's forehead. Come on now, give me a break. Sigh.
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Star, my nearly 17 year old cat, passed away while I was gone this morning. Such sad news to come home to.
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Started day wool coat/uggs in Stockholm, coat off in London, driving home in Raleigh tank top and barefoot. Ahh home!
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Last night in Stockholm with a walk around Gramla Stan (old town). Great conference - thanks Ericsson! Ready to see my family, though.
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At Berns Salonger Hotel in Stockholm for ERUC2010. Opening keynotes about to begin and presenting later today w/ @.
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My mom said brick and mortar. RT @: Going a little crazy trying to list things in Etsy and Artfire plus a brick and mortar shop.
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Hello again Stockholm. Hard to believe it hasn't even been a year!
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Landed and eating in the BA lounge in London. Tired.
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Enjoying an afternoon with my sweet sweets before heading off to Stockholm for a few days on a business trip.
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I've been sufficiently schooled on why I should never, ever ask my husband to watch a movie on a Sat night in the Fall. My bad.
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I think Ade is done with daily naps. :-(
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Yummy Groupon $3 for $6 of Gelato at A La Mode in Wake Forest
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I survived a sleepover/campout last night, and Hillridge pumpkin patch field trip w/ 15 3yr olds today. I'm exhausted.
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Ade and I are having a sleepover on our third floor. What are the chances we will both last all night in our sleeping bags?
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When you work until 10pm, have toddler to care for & meetings start again at 7:30am, when are you supposed to shower?
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Ade while vigorously coloring: "I'm getting dizzy this is such hard work!!!"
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Fascinating TED talk on child-driven education. Makes me consider handing Ade a laptop and walking away.
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As new Kindle owner, I miss physical context of progress & repeated visual connection with cover art. The ambiance of reading, so to speak.
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The iPad is proving the future of digital media - check out this tapestry of content in Dracula:
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Head. ache. Ouch.
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Sometimes I like to go old school watching a random movie that just happens to be on. If I get tired... low commitment.
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Highest advertising premium should be on last 5 sec of commercial block - all that is seen when you're FF through DVR.
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Loving my front yard! Can't wait for the grass and sod to blend, and the new bushes to flower!
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Excited for the Guh's to visit for pumpkin decorating and Vivian snuggling!
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@ That's 1st pref, but if you MUST use cash, go to line that doesn't involve repeatedly stuffing a crinkley $1 bill in the slot.
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Please do not use self-checkout if you're paying with cash. Thanks.
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The Back button, previously a crucial component of good web design, plays such a small role in my own navigation patterns anymore.
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The demolition portion of our landscaping is done and it already looks better! Ade enjoyed eating dinner on porch watching the bobcat.
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New landscaping day! Hooray!
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Spending 2 days snuggling baby Vivian and helping my sister break her new mom sit-in!
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Ade: "Ariel got old and now she's in heaven but she will always watch over her baby. (to baby) 'I'm always watching over you kiddo!' "
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Watching Glee on DVR, which is decidedly NOT gleeful this week.
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Sitting by fireplace this morning (first fire of the season!) while Ade plays in her room. Headed to the farmer's market w/ the Franks.
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It's the season of 3 clothing changes needed per day to keep up with morning to afternoon to evening weather fluctuation.
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Pretty trees.
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Dr. Suess made breakfast at our house this morning (food coloring is a crucial tool in the Mommy trickbag)
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Hysterical - read comment about IBM on this new Gap logo (which I hope is not really the new logo)
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Great article in Wired on visual communication - draw on those napkins!
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Crisp fall weather and that lightly-toasted-dust-smell of the furnace waking from hibernation... Gotta love October mornings!
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Oh w3, please speed up. I need to post stuff and you are making it SO PAINFUL.
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Letting your toddler learn to use scissors has to be one of the most nerve-wracking activities.
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Slides are the devil.
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Another great day! Slept in til 8am, pancakes at Brig's, walk in the park, and some more Vivian lovin! Now we are playing baby.
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Great day - introduced Ade to baby cousin Vivian, Parade of Homes (@ ), simple dinner, some dvr, and early to bed. What's better?
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Taking Ade to meet her cousin Vivian this morning, and she can't wait to hold that baby!
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Just got home and so keyed up after holding my precious niece! Welcome to the world, little soul!
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My sister is having a baby!!!! Please everyone send her positive thoughts and prayers!!!

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